The Second Story: A Sermon

I preached this sermon on Sunday, October 18, 2026 at St. Anne Episcopal Church, West Chester, OH. The lectionary text cited is Matthew 22:15-22.

There is this thing that happens in life. For some of us it happens at an early age, for some it creeps up on us later,. But whoever we are, it’s guaranteed to happen. I am talking about those moments when you thought your life was going to unfold in one way, and then you realize it is not. That the narrative you’d been working with is not true anymore, or maybe it never was.

I remember, for example, when I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes during my freshman year of college. It upended a lot of my expectations about the way life was going to be. I had harbored some dreams of joining the Peace Corps and living abroad with a backpack like my mom had done, and suddenly that was no longer possible. Now, I still managed to have a great college experience, but nonetheless, the story I’d been planning around was no longer going to work. I had to find a new story to live into.

I wonder when this has happened to you. I am quite sure that it has, maybe more than once. Maybe it was when you lost a family member or a spouse. Maybe a divorce or an illness, or just a dream that didn’t come together in the way you’d hoped. Or maybe it’s just reading the news these days and feeling like the world around us has entirely lost the plot about being kind, being just, being human.

Whatever it is, I think a lot of us are living with the grief and heaviness of stories we’d rather not carry, even if we’ve learned how to get by.

But what if there was a second story? What if there was an alternative story; a better story that we could tell and live into? What if the narratives that weigh us down are not the only way to understand our lives?

I’m not just talking about a positive reframing of bad situations. There are some things that are just categorically terrible. If I could undo my chronic illness or your deep grief; if I could stop the bullets that kill innocent children; or undo the hatred that divides families, I absolutely would.

But my hope, tenuous as it may feel sometimes, lies in the fact that there is something more than just disappointment and degradation at work in our lives and in the world around us. Because there is a second story unfolding, coursing along beneath us like an underground river, only occasionally breaking forth to reveal itself, but always there, always also real alongside our pain.

And it is this second story that Jesus came to tell, and live, and die by. It is for this second story that Jesus rose again. And the title of this story is “good news;” it is “love will win;” it is “get behind me, satan, because you can kill our bodies, but you cannot kill our collective hope.”

But whatever we call it, in today’s passage from Matthew, we see how Jesus is able to draw even his enemies into the possibilities of this second story.

You see, the Pharisees and the Herodians, like most of us, are caught up in the first story—the one embodied by Caesar, the one that is most evident all around us. The story that tells us it is foolish to dream of justice or to believe in love when injustice and cruelty persist generation after generation. Through the lens of this first story, Jesus is a problem—he is a threat to the terrible yet relatively familiar order of things.

And so they try to trap him with their question, forcing him to either align himself with or against the emperor. Surely, they think, no matter how he answers, they’ve got him cornered. And if we were living only in the story of Caesar, they’d be right.

But what the Pharisees and the Herodians did not count on is that Jesus does not play by the rules of the first story, nor is he bound by the limitations of its craven imaginings.

When he says “give to the emperor the things that are the emperor’s, and to God the things that are God’s” he is not just saying pay your taxes and go along to get along. No! He is saying: you may not realize it, but you are part of two stories, even now, every one of you. The story of Caesar, and the story of God. And the day of your liberation is the day when you realize they are not the same thing.

Because yes, that first story is of empires and the taxes rendered upon us—the taxes, not just of money, but of scarcity and time and illness and disappointment. Life will demand its payments from us, and we will weep, because this is not the story that we hoped for when we started out. But if we follow Jesus all the way to the Cross, we already know that this is a story we must live out.

But then there is the second story. The story of God, and God’s refusal to abandon us, even when we have become so very lost. The story of God’s triumph over death and of lives that might be lived in something other than fear or desperation.

And this second story, this hidden spring of living water, this invitation to give back to God the things of God within us—faith, and hope, and love, and humility, and mercy, and justice, and forgiveness, and truth-telling, and dignity, and peace, and wonder—this story, though it might seem secondary, is, in fact, the one we must never stop telling. For it is the story that will save us.

Friends, I’ll be honest. I am not immune to the deep grief of our times any more than you are. I rage at the injustice and the suffering, and I feel helpless some days, and bitter on some other ones. I make no peace with wanton cruelty. I believe our culture has been degraded by a whole host of influences, technological, economic, and reactionary. And I do not think that it is the role of the church to retreat from these struggles. Jesus’ invitation to follow him means that we are meant to, as the poet Dylan Thomas says, “rage, rage against the dying of the light.”

But day by day, I am reminded that I cannot do that apart from the second story’s claim upon my soul. I must give to God the things that are God’s, even as we grapple with the world of Caesar. And that means my rage, however righteous, must be grounded in love, peacemaking, and nonviolence. This loving rage is the paradox that Jesus lived out and flipped tables with, and it is what Jesus demands of us, too.

Our question, which has always been the fundamental question for the church, is not whether we do this, but how. How do we live in the tension of these two stories, caught between taxes and transcendence? How do we engage the profane with holy music still on our lips?

The short answer is: we become more like Jesus. Because thus far, he is the only one who has ever done this fully. And we trust in his second story, and we live and die by it, and we encourage one another along the way.

We use the liturgy as our teacher, and our community as a living laboratory of grace in action. We encourage one another when times are very bleak, and we rejoice when that living water erupts in our midst.

And we keep doing this, year by year, season by season, through the rise and fall of things, until such time—a time known only to our Lord—when the first and second stories merge into one, and all we have paid will be redeemed, and all we have lost will be returned, and all of Caesars coins will scatter into the river of God, and we will stand at the edge of some entirely new story altogether.

And even if all the other stories we told were never quite true, this one will be.

This one will be.

“And”: A Sermon

I preached this sermon on Sunday, October 18, 2020 at Trinity Episcopal Church, Fort Wayne, IN. The lectionary text cited is Matthew 22:15-22:

The Pharisees went and plotted to entrap Jesus in what he said. So they sent their disciples to him, along with the Herodians, saying, “Teacher, we know that you are sincere, and teach the way of God in accordance with truth, and show deference to no one; for you do not regard people with partiality. Tell us, then, what you think. Is it lawful to pay taxes to the emperor, or not?” But Jesus, aware of their malice, said, “Why are you putting me to the test, you hypocrites? Show me the coin used for the tax.” And they brought him a denarius. Then he said to them, “Whose head is this, and whose title?” They answered, “The emperor’s.” Then he said to them, “Give therefore to the emperor the things that are the emperor’s, and to God the things that are God’s.” When they heard this, they were amazed; and they left him and went away.

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“Tell us whose side you’re on,” the Pharisees and the Herodians are asking Jesus today. “Tell us who has the ultimate power: the God of Israel, or this Emperor to whom we owe our taxes?”

They are trying to trip Jesus up with this question, of course, because taking a side in this particular dispute will either undermine the Roman authorities (bad idea) or disappoint Jesus’ Judean followers. A perfect conundrum, his inquisitors assume. 

But do you remember that moment, early in his ministry, when the people of Nazareth get really angry at Jesus’s preaching and try to drive him off of a cliff, and then somehow, inexplicably, he simply “passed through the midst of them and went on his way”?

Yeah, he pretty much does the same thing here. Jesus is really good at transcending these no-win situations. His answer, as simple as it is, stuns the questioners—“Give therefore to the emperor the things that are the Emperor’s, and to God the things that are God’s.” It’s the first century equivalent of a mic drop–and so they just sort of shut up and go away. 

But I don’t think our takeway is simply that Jesus is really good at giving clever answers or getting himself out of a bind. No, what we see here is that Jesus brings an entirely different mindset to the world than that of his challengers. Unlike them, he does not see things as a choice between binaries—this world OR the next one, insiders OR outsiders, attentiveness to the realm of God OR Caesar. 

Instead, Jesus is someone who almost always operates in terms of “both/and.” He demonstrates, time and again, that a meaningful response to the complexities of the human condition require us to live in the tension of opposites, making space for both THIS thing and THAT thing, THIS person, and THAT person. We don’t get to opt out of loving God or our neighbor just because things are complicated and nuanced.

I had a professor in seminary, Caroline McCall, who taught us to drop the word “but” from our vocabulary when we were engaging in dialogue with one another—ie. I like what you said, BUT, I think my idea is better.  That is important, BUT this is more important.

Instead, she encouraged us to say “AND.” That is important. AND, this is also important.

I came to understand from Caroline’s teaching that this wasn’t just a strategy for civil discussion; it was a social and theological lens that allows for the coexistence of diverse values and perspectives. It is a way of communicating that invites more ideas into the circle, even paradoxical ideas, even ideas we might not agree with, and in doing so our hearts and our minds become just a bit more open, charitable, Christlike. I might disagree with you AND I am still committed to loving you.

And this is, in effect, what Jesus does to answer the Pharisees and the Herodians today. He is saying: take seriously the demands of the present social order AND love God and your neighbor with all your heart and soul and mind. Engage as a participant in this world, as imperfect and broken as it might be, AND never forget that God is breaking in, forging a new world all around you.  Do both. Be both.

Those who are committed to binaries, to zero-sum games, to seeing the world as winners and losers, are likely to be challenged by this. Still, as followers of the way of Jesus, we need to embody non-binary thinking now more than ever.

When we are confronted in our own lives by people who always try to force us into picking sides, into seeing the world as nothing more than a never ending power struggle in which we must vanquish our perceived enemies, we need to pause, and take a breath, and pass through their midst. Not out of fear or apathy, but because the answer to every question lies on the other side of our enmity.

And I know how tempting it is in these polarized times to pick a team, to pick a side, to think of everyone as either an ally or an enemy, but I am telling you this: if the church doesn’t lead the way in opting out of this binary way of thinking and categorizing the world, if people of faith and good conscience don’t do it, then it will not happen, and we will continue to grow more suspicious of one another and farther and farther apart, long past any particular election season or pandemic. And if we are suspicious and apart, we will never flourish, not one of us.  

The change has to begin here, now, among us and within us, because first and foremost we are citizens of God’s Kingdom, and that is a place fundamentally shaped by the word “AND”: a place that is just AND compassionate, free AND interdependent, abundant AND equitable. Rooted in history AND looking towards the future.

And you know what is so fantastic, so beautiful? It is that we are already doing this; we are already living in this spirit right here at Trinity. We demonstrate this every week by coming together with people—people similar to us and people very different from us—to turn our hearts towards God and one another and by saying YES: yes, life is hard, yes, the world can be angry and cruel, yes, I am exhausted and scared and money is tight and my relationship is on the rocks and my dog is sick and I am so tired of political ads on TV–

AND…

AND life is a gift, and God’s blessings are everywhere, and Christ is in the face of the person next to me, and how amazing it is to be alive today, to breathe the crisp fall air, and how good it is to strive for justice and mercy in this land, and how perfectly imperfect is this very moment, here in the presence of Jesus who is passing, lovingly passing through our midst, passing through our fears, passing through our binaries, guiding us out into the True Answer to every question.

How gut-wrenching it is to love him, to follow him where he goes AND how necessary, how grace-filled, how complete.

We will only glimpse God’s fullness, brothers and sisters and sibilings, when “AND” becomes the vocabulary of our hearts. When we live as though there is space enough for everyone, and mercy enough for everyone, and peace enough for everyone, and food and shelter and justice enough for everyone. There can be. There will be. Because no matter how many blustering emperors come and go from this earth, we worship a God who is ultimately on everyone’s side–a God who will not rest until the day we are all resting together. 

That day feels a long way off sometimes. A long way off.

And:

We will get there.